One interesting thing that you find out if you read BDSM blogs by women is that the type of "women are naturally superior and therefore should all be dominatrixes" attitude you get from Marston is very unpopular with actual dominant women, because it tends to be associated with endorsement as the Only True Way of a dynamic in female-dominant het BDSM that can be summed up as "how DARE you imagine you deserve to touch me you DISGUSTING WORM", and is inherently hostile to actual het female sexual desire and pleasure.